life with a new baby
Musings
Ready or not
Nov 12th
It just hit me that my son is no longer a toddler and is now a preschooler.
PRESCHOOLER.
And he doesn’t toddle anymore. He doesn’t even walk. He RUNS. EVERYWHERE. And let me tell you, this kid is fast. He’s growing more and more into a little boy. A big kid.
I’m not ready for this.
See, we often get those catalogs in the mail that are filled with pictures of kids’ toys. One arrived in the mail the other day. I like to flip through them and see what’s out there. I was thumbing through the toddler section and became slightly dismayed to see that Nathan wouldn’t be interested in most of those toys. I turned the page and GOLDMINE! It was filled with all kinds of toys Nathan would find intriguing. And then I looked up at the top of the page and saw the glaring words “PRESCHOOLERS AGES 3-4.”
Preschooler.
The word tastes funny in my mouth. It seems so… old… somehow. So grown-up and yet not. A contradiction. I have a preschooler and yet he’s still just a baby. It took me a while to get used to calling Nathan a toddler rather than an infant. And just when I became accustomed to that, he morphed into a preschooler right in front of me.
Watching your kid grow is a funny thing. I find myself becoming emotional over things like the thought of getting his first hair cut (It took him over two years to grow his hair; he was completely bald up until a few months ago. And now he has a mop on his head, and cutting it will be a bittersweet moment indeed.) and every time he goes up a size in shoes. There are so many firsts, so many changes, and it all happens so quickly. I just want to press a pause button and breathe him in before he grows any more…
I bet the iPhone 4s is more awesome than your kid letting you sleep late
Oct 16th
You guys, I can’t even tell you how bad I want the new Apple iPhone 4s. Right now, I have an old-school RAZR, and I am beginning to wonder if I am the only person in the world still using this type of phone! Seriously, there have been many times I’ve been using my phone in public and a complete stranger will approach me and jokingly tell me that I need to upgrade.
It’s been a long time since I’ve really, REEEEEAAAAAALLY wanted something, and this I WANT!!
Loving the weather around here lately!
Oct 7th
The past few days have been absolutely lovely here in East Tennessee!! The weather has gotten cooler… but not too cold. Chilly enough to don fuzzy socks and long-sleeves at night, but not too cold to roll down your windows and enjoy the refreshing autumn air during the day. There are some things about East Tennessee I don’t like, such as the thickly humid summers, but there are overwhelmingly more things about East Tennessee that I love, including Spring and Fall. And sweet tea. Although I know that Tennessee is not the only state to serve that sugary goodness. (Any time I visit somewhere up North, I am agonizingly aware of the lack of sweet tea!)
Busy, busy weekend
Oct 3rd
Well, you guys. I’ve officially lost a total of 34 pounds, 38 inches (from all over), and I have gone down 4 dress sizes! I’ve been working on building up my strength, and it’s paying off. Saturday, I did a bunch of yard work, shoveled a dirt for 3+ hours, hauled off logs and wood, and re-stacked a woodpile. All without being incapacitated with bodily pain the next day. Don’t get me wrong, I was bit sore, but it was very mild and hardly noticeable. It’s such a good feeling to be able to accomplish tasks like that… and even better to do a good job and know you did a good job.
I also did yard work last weekend, but that time, my legs were quite sore. Even though I was swinging an ax, sawing, and chopping things, nothing else on my body hurt except for the backs of my legs. It just goes to show that even when you go to the gym and work out really hard, manual labor still uses muscles that you may not be reaching at the gym.
See, I’ve been working out 4x a week since March. I also did a lifestyle change… greatly reduced the amount of processed foods I’ve been eating, incorporating more fruits, veggies, whole grains, and lean meats into my diet, drinking a lot of water, and just being healthy in general. And it’s paying off. I’m losing 1-2 pounds a week, which doesn’t sound like much, but after a number of weeks and months, it adds up. And since I am losing it slowly, I will be less likely to gain it back, which is a problem I’ve had in the past. I’ve tried numerous fad diets (years ago), lost a decent amount of weight in a short amount of time, but I had a hard time keeping the weight off because I was doing it all wrong. It’s not a diet; it’s a lifetstyle. And I love it! I feel great, look great, and have tons of energy, which is a big difference from this time last year. I’m not as focused on losing weight now, though. If I lose more, that’s fine, but I’m more focused on toning up at this point.
So yeah, that was my Saturday. Sunday was nice and relaxing… Paul’s parents came over early Sunday morning to watch Nathan while Paul and I went to church. Since he’s been sick with back-go-back illnesses (with a cold that turned into a respiratory infection, and then that nasty virus he had), we decided to keep him out of the nursery so he could enjoy being well for a bit longer. It was nice not having to hurry to the nursery to drop him off, and Paul and I enjoyed a nice breakfast together after the service. It’s been a long time since we’ve gone out to eat, just the two of us, and we enjoyed not having to worry about keeping our little guy happily entertained, cutting up his food, preventing him from launching said food in all directions, and all the other things that come with having your child with you in a restaurant.
Sometimes it’s nice just to have some time to yourselves. It doesn’t mean you love your kid any less, though. We all need a break sometimes!
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